A million years ago when I was really uncomfortable with the idea of being a submissive, and with BDSM in general, I remember finding a short essay somewhere on the internet. It was by an M/f couple, and she was pregnant, and they were talking about how they had adapted their usual whips-and-chains routine to deal with her pregnancy (which they were being supercareful about…I think they had banned spanking, even). I remember reading that essay was one of the first times I thought: O, kinky people can get together and be thoughtful, nice human beings. It was very eye-opening.
Also, I’m just guessing here, but seems like that tie would be pretty comfy if you were pregnant.
by Ken Marcus